The picture prompt for us to relate to, was not only an enjoyable informative way to introspect and learn about each other.The idea that a picture triggers strong responses underscores the importance that in communication people bring with them their perspectives and experiences for better or for worse.
The creative entertaining exercise of having someone convince us to stand up was a blatant example of taking others' feelings into account when you want something done. A good leader sets the tone and develops a relationship. Prof. Monheit noted that we wanted to help our colleague. Leaders bring people along with them because if they didn't have followers then they wouldn't be leaders!